Maybe this is one of his strategy games. Maybe he in trying to make you crazy, to call him or to..forget about him.
I don't want to be mean, but boys games are not like girls games. I mean we have a complicated mind, we think to much and that drives us crazy. Mean while the boys think simple: I liked her - I call her right away because I don't want to loose her. Is not like they are trying to send a coded message. In their mind everything is simple. They usually speak their mind and do as they feel. When coming about a boy we don't have to worry so much. If the says that this situation in white then probably is. If they don't call us after a one night stand, probably they wanted just a one night stand with us.
If you are in a bad situation like this..you don't have to worry..really girl! Raise your head, smile and move forward. There is nothing you can do about it. If we remember, you did choose your best dress to wear, you used all your good lines and in bed you made all the right moves. Let's face it! You did played one of your best puzzle games.
If now he choose to act like this, it is only his loss. Trust me! Maybe you will meet him again in this big and crazy city and he will realise then his loss.
Don't get me wrong..he might be waiting for the right time to call, he might wait for a sign from you. Maybe he has this shy part that you wasn't able to see from the very beginning. O maybe he caught a flu, or had an accident or something.
We can find him plenty of excuses. If we want to.
But the best thing to do, is to loose our mask, to be ourselves, to forget about the sadness, to get out from the "crime scene" - the apartment, and to live our lives. I talk about WE here, because I am sure that all of us had at least one situation like that..
We don't have to worry to much, even if we had big expectations from the person that disappointed us. For sure..there is a reason why that person didn't remained in our life.
So head up girl! and just say: Next please!!!
With love,
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