Where are you Christmas? Faith Hill

Who stole Christmas..?

   Grinch! you may say...or.."my neighbor".. :)) But let's try to find the real "thief"..

   We talked about the fact that in the winter we prefer to stay at home..and play free online games, and also about the puzzle game that winter plays with the colors outside.. So..let's say in general..that nature plays this game..in all her seasons..

   But let's get back to our Christmas..that is almost here.

Look around...white landscapes..trees of sugar..crystal lakes.. This is like a story..a story that we forgot to fast..but when we were kids..this was like one of our favorite stories.. Carols..silver bells..cookies..Christmas tree..carollers.. All this help us to imagine..and then to have a perfect Christmas..

   But still..Who stole the Christmas..with each passing year it seems to me that Christmas is forgotten..and changes. We all change..but Christmas is to special for changes.. I think that this is the only holiday that really should remain the same..no matter what.. This is the moment when all the family gathers..and when we all feel or..should feel better..better persons.

    But this days..Christmas changes..to much..it's like..the spirit is gone..and all the magic died..

   Why? .. From my point of view..people have stolen the Christmas..the spirit of that magic Christmas that we all knew when we where little. Nowadays..people are stressed...to stressed..angry..they don't have enough..enough money, enough time, enough love.. Nowadays we always want more..we hate the traffic..we blame the economic crisis for all the bad things that happen..oh! and let's not forget about the pollution..and about the environmental changes..

And if we don't blame all this..we have a boss, a neighbor, a colleague..a seagull..or the neighbor's dog.. :))

Whether we like it or not..we always find reasons..to be pissed of..or..maybe being nervous is our new way of life.. :))

   Anyway..all this, led to the loss of Christmas, of Christmas spirit .. of the feelings of purity and happiness that we all would need to feel even in this time of year ..

   Let's choose some carols,  some winter songs..a Christmas tree, some decorations..some presents...Let's gather some friends..and our family..and try to feel the real Christmas spirit..

   Nobody stole Christmas.. we just stole our own by our way of being. Let's try to forget about the stress, about the problems..and feel the way we felt..when we where kids.. :). 

   Let's receive the Christmas spirit in our homes..and souls.. Christmas is here!! for everybody..

                                                                                                              Yours,

                                                                                                                  Sarah C.

Does Christmas have a spirit??

     Does Christmas have a spirit? And do we know this spirit? How do we recognize it? Does winter always come with something special? When we speak bout winter holidays..do we feel the magic? 

      Winter usually comes with her strategy game.. She starts by scaring away the autumn..the sun starts to get weaker and weaker..the sky turns from blue to grey, the leaves get all that brown, yellow and red colours..and a variety of tones.. The birds go away, to the warm countries..and we all start to change our wardrobe..

     It's like a puzzle game she's playing.. At first with all that brown and yellow mixes..then slowly starts to change the puzzle in grey and black..and finally..we get to see some awesome blue..pure white..and just a little dark brown.. Now we are talking about a game that winter always wins..when she competes with the other seasons.

    She can have the brightest sun on the bluest sky..the coldest day..and the whitest image ever. This is so pure...So beautiful..  

    Personally, I like winter, but I hate that awful cold! And if I get to talk about the image that winter creates...Well, that image is outstanding..!

    The image is unique..and gives us that holiday spirit..makes us feel like a child..makes us feel pure..happy..makes us smile without a specific reason..and give presents..because we like that feeling.

    A winter night...with a full moon..some bells ringing..carollers with crystalline voices..the Christmas tree..hot cookies.. 

    Does all this brings us the Christmas spirit?? Is this how we recognize the spirit? :)

                                                                                                                With love,

                                                                                                                        Sarah C.

Duck Sauce - Barbra Streisand Official Video

Runaway...

  

     I've got my things packed even my favorite 

pillow..And all the pictures and pain, I've left behind. 

    All the memories..all the good and bad..I've left behind!
    Now I've got, all the freedom and fame that I've gotta find! I have to chase the rainbows in my mind..and I will try to stay alive!
    But I wonder, how long it'll take them to notice that I'm gone.

    I need to escape this crazy life...I need to runaway! No more midnight movies, no more seagulls and dogs, no more free online games, no more clubs, cocktails and especially no more boys!! 

   No more boys..and none of their hunting or shooting games..! No more you..no more!! Just me..and my dreams..just me myself and I!

    In the end..I was just trying to be myself, but now I know..that you have to go your way, and I-ll runaway!

Anyway..this was so typically you! at least now.. do as you say not as you do!
    I just tired of this raise..of chasing dreams that will never come true..I so tired of lies, of hypocrisy..of fake people.. I'm just tired of this big city life..or maybe of this big city..that apparently has nothing to offer.. At least for now.

     I could dream on other city..I could walk the streets of New York, I could sing for change in Paris..I could fall in love in Rome..I could meet some great boys in Lisbon..be a red light dancer in Amsterdam.

    I can change my name..choose a family..I can loose my identity and be who I want to be!!! I can leave an American dream..or I can get lost in a Chinese neighbourhood. I can do whatever I feel like..why? because I can!!!

  
    Yes i can do all that...you can do like that...we all can! We have the right and the chance to choose..maybe sometimes we don't make the best choices in life..but we still can make it right.

    Maybe I am to young to be..take in seriously..but I'm to old to believe..peoples hypocrisy. So I will try to make things better...to make things right this time..I'll try to escape.. 

    I will runaway!! Don't know where yet..but I would prefer a quit place...a warm place..with turquoise water..with exotic fishes..with a lot of sun...sand..and shells..

 

                      I'll take my boyfriend..and runaway!! :) Maybe you should do the same..

    

                                                                                                                With love, 

                                                                                                                       Sarah C.





P.S. I am a fan of Pink.. :P

  

Dj Sava & Raluka feat Connect-R - Love you HD

All the city noise..

   You managed hardly to get over your previous bad experience with that guy and you are trying to stay calm..to have some time alone, to relax and forget about all the problems that you had.

   Outside it's a cold December night and you decided to stay at home, in bad with your laptop and to watch one of your favourite movies. 

   Some aromatherapy, a glass of wine, few candles. Even your phone is on silent..you don't want to receive any bad news.             

   Ok..you have a great time just you and yourself. 

   Nothing seems to ruin this special time you are trying to have, this special moments. Eventually is feels so good to be alone sometimes..not to bother and not to be bothered..

   But wait a minute..what's that strange noise coming from the opposite building ? Some sharp and strange noises..Never heard that before in a city..but it sounds familiar from the sea side.. Oh! calm down honey..this are your winter time neighbours. The seagulls.. Yes you know them from the sea side but during the winter they come to live in the city where can find more food..and they have some nesting right next to your building.. They sound like they are playing some kind of strategy games in order to get their neighbours insane. 

   No problem. You can turn your laptop volume a little bit louder and still enjoy your movie. You are back to your previous status: RELAXED.

   But wait a minute..what is that awful sound? You feel like you are part of a horror movie.. Oh my God! It is one of your neighbours dog..howling at the moon.! And..no...your favourite movie is not Twilight and you don't have a passion for werewolves..! This dog sounds like he is not having a great time and like he is playing some escape games, trying to escape his cage and terrifying  all the people around.

  F..k! Your evening is totally ruined. No more for the relaxing moments..no more for that special moments you where spending just you and yourself..

   And now comes the big question.. What should do a lonely girl, living in a big city, in order to have some quiet moments? In order to relax and forget about all the problems that she has, about all that crazy life that waits for her outside.??

   I mean..since you choose to stay at home, alone..this doesn't mean that you want to be alone??!!! No dogs..no seagulls..no strange noises!!!!and..NO! no neighbours that fix around the house in the middle of the night..

   Well girl..maybe it's time to change your windows!! :)) 

   But, think about all this, starting tomorrow..now sleep and forget about everything..  

Shakira - Loca ft. Dizzee Rascal

Next please...

   So you had one great night with him, but now are more than 3 days since then, and he still hasn't called.

   Maybe this is one of his strategy games. Maybe he in trying to make you crazy, to call him or to..forget about him.

   I don't want to be mean, but boys games are not like girls games. I mean we have a complicated mind, we think to much and that drives us crazy. Mean while the boys think simple: I liked her - I call her right away because I don't want to loose her. Is not like they are trying to send a coded message. In their mind everything is simple. They usually speak their mind and do as they feel. When coming about a boy we don't have to worry so much. If the says that this situation in white then probably is. If they don't call us after a one night stand, probably they wanted just a one night stand with us.

   If you are in a bad situation like this..you don't have to worry..really girl! Raise your head, smile and move forward.   There is nothing you can do about it. If we remember, you did choose your best dress to wear, you used all your good lines and in bed you made all the right moves. Let's face it! You did played one of your best puzzle games.

   If now he choose to act like this, it is only his loss. Trust me! Maybe you will meet him again in this big and crazy city and he will realise then his loss.

   Don't get me wrong..he might be waiting for the right time to call, he might wait for a sign from you. Maybe he has this shy part that you wasn't able to see from the very beginning. O maybe he caught a flu, or had an accident or something. 

   We can find him plenty of excuses. If we want to.

   But the best thing to do, is to loose our mask, to be ourselves, to forget about the sadness, to get out from the "crime scene" - the apartment, and to live our lives. I talk about WE here, because I am sure that all of us had at least one situation like that..

   We don't have to worry to much, even if we had big expectations from the person that disappointed us. For sure..there is a reason why that person didn't remained in our life.

   So head up girl! and just say: Next please!!!

                                                                                                  With love,

                                                                                                              Sarah C.

Deepcentral - Music Makes Me Free (Official Video)

Are you a player?! Become one!!

    So you are all set up for the beginning of the big game.. You want a man and you will get one! 

You meet him and after a small talk you realise that you are more like the red remover game type and he is more like the type that plays shooting games . 

You are calm and analytical he is agitated and always looking for a little action. 

So what?! Girl..you wanted a man and now you have him right in front of you..play your card right!

      Smile..let him think that you are his type.. I know is hard and you hardly lied once or twice in your entire life.. but you prefer to play this game right or to be another alone girl in this big and crazy city..?

     I didn't think so..you had enough loneliness.. 

     Look around in this place are plenty of single guys..but the single girls number is like..double. You don't want to take this risk. You know that New York is a city where is hard to make a decent relationship. And he is cute..he brought you in this nice bar with nice music..and hope he will pay for the drinks.. :)

    Forget about the differences between you and focus on your target. A boyfriend!

    So..one glass of wine..maybe two.. 

- "Let me walk you home"..

- "Oh! do you want to come up for another glass?" 

- "Ok!..but just one more".. 

- "Oh! ok..my apartment is a mess.. " 

- "Don't worry..mine to..you will see."

    And really girl..don't worry! About the mess about the glass, about the wine.. You both know the purpose of him coming up..He won't pay attention to any of that..He knows what he wants.. Do you?!

    Smile..act normal.. You want him..don't you?!

     From now on..this will be much easier, since you are a master in bed..this will not include to much talking and you can't pull back from what will  happen next.

    Lay back..and enjoy..but don't stand like a dead body.. I know you are nervous..but just be yourself and do your best moves..

     It's time to play some action games !!

     

Live It Up! - Deepside Deejays -

Smiley feat Pacha Man - Love is for free (Official Video)

Love game...

      Ok.. so we did figure it out that at a certain moment in life we all need somebody. Somebody to sleep with, somebody to love and to love us back. But..let's face it. Life is a game. I don't refer in here at one of that free online games that create a virtual world and life. I mean real games, real life games. Since we were kids we played all kind of games, did all this childhood games had one purpose? - to prepare us for the games we where about to play when we grow?

      I can't bet on that but this might have a point. I mean every day we meet people and we do different kind of activities. We have tasks and even missions. Just like in a game. But what happens when we start to play with love. To play a love game. This might be dangerous. Ok! not only the love game can be dangerous, but all the games. Anyway, we are talking about love right now so let's stick to the love game. 

     Picture that: you meet a guy a nice guy and you would love to have more than one date, more than a one night stand. You even might feel that he is THE ONE. At this point you start to wonder: should I call him?, should I wait for his call?, should I act busy and unavailable?..should I..should I. And of course you call all your friends, meet them and talk a lot about this new guy. You even make a plan. Like a battle plan. You are very sure about what you must do about this situation and even your friends gave you some great advices. Ok you are prepared to play this game. Stick to your plan and don't listen to your feelings..those usually cause only trouble. And very important hope or even pray that HE won't play a dirty game. If so.. your hole plan must change and you must reconsider everything.

  

      You have your best lines, your best outfit the hair looks great and your face never looked brighter. You are ready to start the game. The first move is decisive. Good luck! but keep that in mind: this is not one of that free online games, that you used to play. It is a real life game - your game! 

              Make smart moves and win the game!

                                                                                                       With love, 

                                                                                                                    Sarah C.

The Verve - Bitter Sweet Symphony

Big city life

   I was thinking yesterday, actually before I went to bed..what is all about this big cities?
    After my evening "ritual" of watching a few episodes of Sex and the city..I couldn't fall asleep and started to wonder..
   I do live in a big city, for some time now..more exactly 25 years, but with all this.. big cities are still a mystery to me..
   I did visit some big cities and I still dream about some.. For now, of one thing I am sure: every city is different but all they have something in common. 

   Night life, crazy people, married people, single boys, single ladies, dreamers and many other categories.
   Ok..which one of them are you? Which one of them am I? I guess I can consider myself a single lady, that dreams a lot about the perfect guy.. I have been lucky for some time, but I am not anymore.. Now I am single.. even free - you may say. Many of you can tell me..Ok!! so be happy with that!! You can always meet  new guys, you can have fun and you don't have to write any report when you come back home :) Yeah so??

   All this depends of what you really wish, and from now on I'm starting to wish something different..something special ..my time is running away and I need to sleep with somebody and also to wake up with that person..I need love..I want to love and to be loved! - you may say I'm a dreamer..

   So..my big question will be..what it takes for a single girl in a big city to make a relationship?? As all of you might say is easy to meet guys, to have fun...to have sex with them..but what happens when you are searching for THE ONE?? When you are searching for love, respect and sincerity.. It is fun getting out with your girlfriends, danceing and drinking in a club..having fun..getting crazy..maybe after that picking a guy that looks good having some good sex with him..and that would be all.!

   But the problem is that in the morning or in the day after all that crazy fun you had..you will be all alone. We all know how it feels to be alone especially after you had way to much cocktails.. It feels bad..very bad!!
   So..ladies..what should we do, to feel better even after a fun night..and after a great fuck...?

   What should we do..to have someone beside us..in this crazy big city life?

With love.. Sarah C.